Ladies, of course we want to keep it spicy in the bedroom at all times but sometimes we have to know when a little goes a long way. Stepping out of your comfort zone is always a good thing but just be careful where you step! You don’t want to step on your partner’s toes.
Don’t be a Pillow Princess
Sex is a 2 person dance and it is absolutely no fun if your partner isn’t doing their part. Of course there are times when you or your partner want to take control but that doesn’t mean you lay back and fall asleep.
Do be an active participant
Do your part to maximize the enjoyment and sensation of every position. Make sure you move with your partner so they know you’re as into it as they are.
Don’t bring scary contraptions into the bedroom
Gadgets and toys are cool, but not always in the bedroom. They aren’t for everybody. Bringing an elaborate sex toy into the bedroom can make your partner feel inadequate, or make them feel like they’re not doing their job properly.
Do take baby steps when it comes to accessories
That doesn’t mean everything is off limits. It is best to start slow, start with things that can be easily used but thoroughly enjoyed. Handcuffs, blindfolds, and intimate dice are a good start!
Don’t bore your partner with the same routine
Sex isn’t supposed to be a rehearsed dance routine so don’t treat it like one. If you bore your partner with the same positions and order of events every time you can’t be very surprised when they stop wanting to participate in the horizontal boogie as often.
Do put on a show for your partner every once in a while
Sex should be fun and exciting! If you usually just hop in the bed naked try wearing something sexy or doing it some where other than the bed. If you’ve been doing the same positions for months in the same order it’s time to switch it up. There is an unlimited amount of positions for all skill levels on the internet, so get with it!