When you’re just starting out in a relationship, there are tons of things you can do that set your lady friend on edge. Your girlfriend probably won’t say anything because she’s embarrassed or
crushed by the societal pressure to not seem crazy doesn’t want you to see her angry.
In no particular order, I’m here to set the record straight.
4. Touching her legs.
Spoiler alert: many women shave their legs.
There is a very tiny window in which shaved legs remain silky smooth. If you’ve caught a woman outside this window, you’ll notice her entire body tense up as you caress her legs. It’s not you, it’s the media. The more comfortable you get with each other, the less she’ll shave. Look forward to that. That means she loves you.
What you should do:
gently, use your nails do it anyway and tell her how smooth her skin is.
3. Holding her face by her chin.
Quite a substantial amount of women have some kind of chin hair. There’s a lot of plucking and waxing, but, occasionally, some stubble rears its prominent head. See above for the horror that ensues.
What you should do: hold the side of her face and say the cute thing you were about to say.
2. Putting your arm around her shoulders when it’s hot.
This is more of an issue for those women sporting longer hair who wear it down. If her hair’s been painstakingly styled, you are now crushing it. Additionally, it’s probably getting caught on your jacket or watch while your arm pushes it onto her sweaty neck.
What you should do:
there are these things called waists and arms don’t date girls who care more about their hair than your affection.
1. Tickling the backs of her knees.
This can be nice in a sexual context, but this can also be used as way to get a woman in the mood. The few times it’s been tried on me, I reacted rather violently. No, we did not have sex.
Look at your life. Look at your choices.
What you should do: Don’t try to manipulate someone’s sexual arousal.