Dating Success vs Work Success

Earlier today I was chatting up my grandmother (this isn’t something I typically do but is something I typically feel guilty about. I am no better than you when it comes to calling my grandmother) having one of our catch-ups. She told me what

I’m Here, I’m Queer

This topic has been on the tip of my tongue for some time and there are about a dozen people that I wanted to start a dialogue with. I can’t possibly be alone in this problem so I figured the best way to bring the subject to light is to display it

The pitfalls of polyamory

I can’t say that I’ve always identified with the polyamorous life; as a younger person I often spent time imagining a future life as a father and husband.  With time and experience though, I became skeptical about the prospects of

Liars In Love

A lie. Noun. A false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood. Love. Noun. Strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties. Two words connotatively miles apart. Yet, all too often, go


20 Things You Should Do in Your 20’s

All right, so I may still be in my early 20’s but I thought I’d draft a list from experience and also from advice I have gotten over some time. These 20 things are simply suggestions and some really aren’t possible unless the circumstance is

Love Is…

Growing up, I had often wondered what the hell love even was and, like everyone else, I had been led down a path that I thought was love only to find that I had been terribly mistaken. It didn’t help that I didn’t have any examples of lasting,


Embracing The Single Life

You flip through the channels on the remote and it seems like ever TV show or movie you see flashing before your eyes show the same thing. A story about two people who fall madly in love with one another and they live happily ever after. Sure you